Meetings, work, more meeting, learning more learning, working and the exhaustion, frustration, anger (definitely anger management failed), tension, tense, personal problems erupted, more stress, falling for a person who don’t like you at all, intensely pressured into banging head to wall... and the list goes on and on to certain extend blow up (a magnitude of 9 on the Richter scale).
Who are we to demand the things that we want in life?? Can we reject things that do not satisfy us whenever we want to?? Life is never what we perceived. Success and failure of oneself can never be anticipated. One-minute a success story and the next minute in a frantic state trying to figure out where it all went wrong. Off course with failure or disappointment comes anger. Seduction from Satan just increases the height of rage to a point releasing it at that time is the best solution. It never is!
There are solution to this (Jack Nicholson method is not an option at all). The solution lies in the Holy Quran and the Hadith. The method stated is to avoid us from being misguided by the elusive ways of Satan.
Only Allah would have the solution for us. Nobody in this world would have the clue what and how we feel accept for Allah SWT the Al-Mighty. We are asked to read and read we should for the answers lays in the Holy Book.
Bismillāhir-Raúmānir-Raúeem1.
Alif, Lām, Meem.2.
This is the Book about which there is no doubt, a guidance for those conscious of Allāh SWT –3.
Who believe in the unseen, establish prayer, and spend out of what We have provided for them,4.
And who believe in what has been revealed to you, [O Muhammad SAW], and what was revealed before you, and of the Hereafter they are certain [in faith].5.
Those are upon [right] guidance from their Lord, and it is those who are the successful.6.
Indeed, those who disbelieve – it is all the same for them whether you warn them or do not warn them – they will not believe.7.
Allāh SWT has set a seal upon their hearts and upon their hearing, and over their vision is a veil. And for them is a great punishment.
Surat Ash-Shūraá (The Consultation) - سورة الشورى
36. So whatever thing you have been given - it is but [for] enjoyment of the worldly life. But what is with Allah is better and more lasting for those who have believed and upon their Lord rely
37. And those who avoid the major sins and immoralities, and when they are angry, they forgive,
40.And the retribution for an evil act is an evil one like it, but whoever pardons and makes reconciliation - his reward is [due] from Allah . Indeed, He does not like wrongdoers.
41. And whoever avenges himself after having been wronged - those have not upon them any cause [for blame].
42. The cause is only against the ones who wrong the people and tyrannize upon the earth without right. Those will have a painful punishment.
43. And whoever is patient and forgives - indeed, that is of the matters [requiring] determination.
mel's mind... 20-09-11
