What is handshaking???

Well folks, oopppsss we did it again. Most of the time we meet or greet people with a handshake. It could be a soft handshake or even a firm one. It depends on the situation at that particular time and also the person that we are greeting. Needless to say, normally we don't bother that much how we do it. Its just sufficient doing it out of good manners.  What is the right way of doing it??? Does it matter... well it does to me.

There is not a day that goes by without me meeting and greeting people. Casual encounters or even for business purposes.  Irregardless of the occasion,  a handshake will always be the first good gesture that starts off these encounters. After doing this for a long time, you'll be able to tell the type of each handshake. Whether it is sincere, for show or even official. So folks,  be sincere in anything you do.  It takes a big heart to be able to give a sincere handshake.  Try to give one wholeheartedly and you'll understand what I mean and when you meet the next person try doing the same without reservation... 

What's so difficult

There are times when little things that you do becomes the talk of the town and the big things that you do becomes history in a flash....

This is a norm in human behaviour. We tend to cherish all those little things that our favourite person do for us and we neglect the bigger things that was done by people we don't favour even if that big thingy was giving us the good life we have now...

It is the same when it comes to offences or wrong doing.. human beings are less forgiving when it comes to offences. If the offences was committed by a favourite person, it would be taken as a common mistake that could be committed by anyone. If the wrong doing was committed by the less favourable person, that's it strike three you're out. .. what ever good things that you've done in the past will be forgotten in an instant....

Humans for you... why is it this way??? Why can't we appreciate all the things that we've got irregardless of how and from who we've obtained it. Irrespective of the nature or the quantum.  The same goes for wrong doings.... is it impossible to follow the specifications of a human being....

Talk less old chap!!!

Being a chatterbox is good when you're still in your diaper running around because you're in the process of learning to pronounce and use simple words correctly.  You look cute to everyone around you and slip of the tounge will not be taken seriously because hey... you're just a kid and what do you know... 

When you're older being a talkative person is never that good.... trust me... I know!!! When you are the radio in the family, it's always a problem.  When you're quiet, the environment is like a deserted cowboy town... you can even hear the tune of the good the bad and the ugly playing at the back ... when you kept talking to create a discussion mood, there will be times when you say something wrong and people tend to be emotional over it or better yet there are one joker who is always on your case and wait to find your fault or make a big thing out of the small little slips you make.

There are also these bright and sparkling remarks that you make to just motivate someone but often enough is always taken in wrongly just because when you said it your face was a bit skeptical or there was a sense of sarcasm in your tone of voice.

So believe me that being quiet is the best for the benefit of everyone. Talk less and do more they say.... so try to avoid group or family discussion and start to learn how to keep that big mouth of yours shut or learn how to make excuses like I got to shit or like my mom always do she burrppss although she stopped but it has always been somewhat funny for us kids....

What was that????

Getting in the same mess you were 3 times before. Knowing how you got there and what was the reason. Then you got careless and did the same thing and wham!!!! You're in the same predicament you were in before.... when you got out of the mess in the past, it was all about having  perseverance and persistency was your daily ritual. Now, its an entirely different golf game altogether.  Although the players and the course remain the same but the mental and physical state of each players are different.  What becomes the main question is the ability to sustain and go the extra mile.... its a question of how bad you want to survive and win........

Words.. its mine

Whether you listen or you don't..... it's all up to you. Nothing I do from here on matters. My words are precious.... it is expansive to whoever it touches.... maybe not you, maybe not now... whats important I've said it...

What is required of me????

I am still trying to think what is required of me. Maybe its just a feeling that we encounter every fortnightly or its a normal feeling for a person with a stressful life. Watching my kids playing lego just made me think of life and its similarity with lego. They lay them on the floor and start to reconstruct the best possible design to achieve a design which gets the best compliment and reward from their mom... I guess we try to construct our life to the  best of our abilities to obtain the reward from the al mighty.... we fail we tear it down and start over but sometimes we get to tired to start over and the push or motivation is required ... (in a layman's term a jolt up our ass). When this comes usually you have a sudden urge to do the right thing irregardless of the time!!!!